Terry Cavanagh

1950 - 2008
LocationTidworth (born In Leeds) Seacroft
Age57 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth26/02/1950
Date of Death19/01/2008
Visitors11,653 since 20/06/2008
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ALL MY POEMS THAT I WRITE ARE NOW COPYRIGHT REGISTERED AND PROTECTED @my free copyright.com

PLEASE READ:
THE FOLLOWING POEM WAS WRITTEN BY MYSELF AND IS AT THE MOMENT BEING PUT ON SOME MEMORIALS WITHOUT MY
NAME ON IT. I WOULD BE VERY GRATEFUL IF YOU WOULD AMEND IT.
THANK YOU.

FOUR LITTLE WORDS

There are four little words
that can easily be said
to my angels in heaven
before I go to my bed.

I look up to the stars
that are shining so bright
and I whisper so quietly
I Love You, Goodnight.

Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009

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MY SOLDIER BOY
My angel was a soldier boy
travelling far and wide,
He served his country faithfully
with his comrades by his side

My soldier boy was just a child
when he signed up for the cause,
but little did we know that soon
he would be fighting in the wars.

He wore his uniform so proud,
and medals for all to see,
but little did I know quite soon,
he wouldn't come back to me.

So as he waved bye bye that day
We both stood there and cried,
and then that awful letter came
for his country he had died.

I sometimes smile, I sometimes cry
now that we are apart
I will never forget you soldier boy
You're always in my heart.

Copyright ©Jean Cavanagh 2009

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M - Miss you every day and night
Y - You're that star in the sky shining bright

A - Angel wings hold me so gently
N - Never ending love surrounds me
G - God took you in his loving care
E - Embracing you on your journey there
L - Left me with just memories of a love so rare.
✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽

Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009

☾☆ ☾☆ ☾☆☾☆ ☾☾☆☾☆ ☾☆ ☾☆ ☾☆ ☾☆☾☆ ☾☆
H is for the HAPPINESS and how you always cared
E is for the Everlasting love that we once shared
A is for the Angel that you are up above
R is for the Robin the Butterfly and the Dove
T is for Terry who I will always miss and love
A is for the Awful pain that you had every day
C is for the Cancer that took your life away
H is for the Heavenly Father who took you up above
E if for the Emptiness I am feeling without your love
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Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009

MANY THANKS FOR ALL THE KIND MESSAGES I HAVE BEEN RECEIVING ABOUT MY POEMS AND CANDLE VERSES. I ONLY
STARTED WRITING THEM A FEW MONTHS BACK BUT GET GREAT COMFORT FROM DOING THEM. I FEEL SO PROUD THAT
MANY OF YOU HAVE ASKED TO USE THEM ON YOUR MEMORIALS. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

THANK YOU TO ALL MY LOVELY FRIENDS WHO CONTINUE TO LIGHT CANDLES ETC FOR TERRY AND MY MUM AND GIVE
ME SO MUCH SUPPORT IT MEANS SO MUCH.


PLEASE FEEL FREE ANYONE WHO WISHES TO LIGHT A CANDLE ETC. FOR TERRY. I GIVE MY PERMISSION FOR ANYONE
TO USE ANY PHOTOS PROVIDING IT IS FOR USE ON TERRY'S MEMORIAL ONLY.

My Family

RIP Dvr John Brown died in 1939 aged 18 years of pneumonia in Tidworth Military Hospital. Buried in
Tidworth Military Cemetary. Uncle of Terry Cavanagh.

RIP (Dad) 22957366 Sgt John Victor Cooke RASC/RCT died of prostrate cancer in 1998 aged 79. Buried
in Aldershot Crematorium. Fought at Dunkirk. Ex 8th Army and Chindit. He always paraded at the
cenotaph in London every Remembrance Day until the last year when he was in a wheelchair and still
managed with Mum pushing him. Served 32 years in Army.

RIP (Mum) Agnes May Cooke passed of cancer on 2 March 08 (Mothers Day). Funeral took place on 14
March on what would have been her 83rd birthday.

RIP (Cousin) Major Ronald Cooke died aged 60 of massive heart attack on 15 Dec 07. Served 22 years
in Army.

RIP Nell Cooke (Aunt) passed of cancer 1985

RIP 24158495 LCPL Terry Cavanagh (my husband)4/7th Royal Dragoon Guards died at home of cancer on 19
Jan 07 aged 57. Buried in Tidworth Military Cemetary.

RIP Annie Cavanagh (Terry's Mum)passed of lung and liver cancer also aged 57 1974

RIP Charles Cavanagh (Terry's Dad)

RIP John Cavanagh (Terry's Brother)passed of brain cancer.

MY SON AND HIS PARTNER ARE EXPECTING A BABY BOY IN APRIL. THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE HIM THE NAME TERRY
AS A SECOND NAME IN MEMORY OF HIS GRANDDAD. ALSO 1 MORE GRANDCHILD DUE IN AUGUST 09.

◄███▓▒░░ LOVING HUSBAND ░░▒▓███►

My partner, soulmate, and husband of 33 years Terry went to heaven on 19 Jan 08 age 57 years.

Joined the Army 1969-1978
4/7th Royal Dragoon Guards
Bricklayer/Foreman.

Terry was born in Leeds and lived with his mum and dad on North Parkway in Seacroft, until he joined
the Army at the age of 18.
He was posted to Tidworth in Hampshire in 1975 and that is where we first met, and eventually
settled down when he came out of the Army. Terry has 4 surviving sisters Jean, Margaret, Ann and
Michelle. 3 Children - Ilona, Dyanne and Richard.
6 grand children - Mitchell, Leah, Kayla-May, Chloe Jane, and Ruby Rose born 23 Feb 08 and Caleb
Terence born on 20 Apr 08. (1 more due, August 08).
I already had 2 children from a previous marriage when we met, and he brought them up as his own and
they always called him dad.
Terry was diagnosed with secondary liver cancer on 7 June 07. We did not know he had cancer but the
specialist told us it had derived from the colon or bowel which he probably had for 2 or 3 years and
not known. We wept uncontrollably the day we left the hospital as he was only given 6-12 months to
live. Terry told me that evening he was not afraid of dieing, probably the old soldier in him.
We lived together for 32 years and finally got married on 14 July 07. He said to me on the way to
the Registry Office that morning "Promise me you won't cry, or you'll start me off." When he put the
ring on my finger he was the one that cried, and then everyone started, I choked but managed not to
cry. It was just a small ceremony with close family and friends, but it was the happiest day of my
life. The sun was shining on us that day,it was one of the warmest days of the year. He even
postponed his chemo for a month as it co-incided with our wedding day. A week later he drove all the
way down to Dorset where we stayed in a holiday bungalow for a week. All the way there he was
suffering terrible stomach pains but was determined we would have our last holiday or honeymoon. We
even took our little dog with us.
Terry suffered a heart attack on Remembrance Day after attending a service at the Royal British
Legion. He spent a week in hospital and after his x-rays we find out that the cancer had spread to
his lungs. From that day on he was almost bedridden.
Terry spent his last days doing his favourite hobby, fishing, and went on a fishing trip with his
grandson Mitchell and a close friend. They fished for 31 hours, he just didn't want to stop. He knew
it would be the last time.
As the days went on he lost so much weight and just slept for hours on end. Christmas was terrible,
he ate a half of weetabix and was violently sick. He could not eat anything and just laid in bed
sleeping all day. My son and daughter came over and the 3 of us just sat in the kitchen and tried to
make the best of it.
Terry died peacefully at home on 19 Jan 08 and with such bravery and dignity. His sister Michelle
and Niece Lynne were here with me. Terry was always remembered for his sense of humour and never
stopped cracking jokes. I still love him dearly, he was my soulmate. I miss him terribly. We would
sit of an evening listening to music over a bottle of wine or two. His favourite music was Country
and Western but liked listening to Dean Martin and often used to mimic him.
Never a day goes by without me not thinking of him and shedding a silent tear.
Because he was so dignified and brave I feel I am not frightened to let go when my time comes. Such
a brave, brave man.
I still love you my darling and I always will. No-one could ever replace you. Till we meet again my
little soldier boy, God Bless and goodnight. Sleep tight, you are forever in my heart.

I cannot thank my daughter Dy, son Rich, and friends Pete, Jim, Sarah and Laura enough, who have all
been so supportive. Also to my grandchildren Mitch, Leah, Kayla-May and Chloe who have helped me to
raise a smile with their wonderful sense of humour.
Thank you to all those kind people on here who have lit a candle and paid a tribute to my darling
Terry.


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how i miss you

My broken heart..
Will never mend
So lots of kisses..
I shall send
We think of you..
In a better place
With beautiful wings..
And a smile on your face

Every day is a struggle you see
Trying to cope..
So please help me

How do I cope?
I do not know
My heart is broken..
So that goes to show

I can't except you are gone
I need you here..
Please keep me strong
Stay by my side..
Show me the way
Help me to cope every day

I love and miss you so much..
And I always will
Since you have been gone..
Time has stood still

I think of you in heaven..
With Gods Angels up above
Please my precious Angel..
Watch over me with love
love from Robert and christine xxxxx

copyright� Jackie Thomas 01/08/09.

Angel Ishbells Parents August 13, 2009

hello terry.

been hectic here at my end terry, my son andrew is home on leave from afghanistan so Im spending my time with the family, you are in my thoughts you and all your family xxxx

Patricia Clegg August 10, 2009

*♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥*
~ In My Mind (by Jenn Farrell) ~

Somewhere in my dreams tonight
I'll see you standing there,
You look at me with a smile
"Life isn't always fair."
You say you were chosen for His garden
His preciously hand picked bouquet,
"God really needed me
That's why I couldn't stay."
It's said to be that angels
Are sent from above,
I've always had my angel
Whose heart was filled with love.
Wherever the ocean meets the sky,
There will be memories of you and I.
When I look up at that sky so blue,
All I see are visions of you.

"While there's a heart in me, you'll be a part of me."
*♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥* *♥*

Mel Xxxxx August 10, 2009

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Debbie Nestor (GTS Friend) August 7, 2009

WITH LOVE

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I give this rose to you beautiful Angel above
It's a gift from me and it's sent with love
It's colour is a shade of red
Especially picked from my flowerbed

I'm sending the rose..
First class on the back of a dove
Because I have grown it..
With lots of love

So look after this rose..
With care and love
As it's for you beautiful Angel..
In heaven above


copyright Jackie Thomas 06/08/09.

Jan Berry August 6, 2009

☾☆ ☾☆ ☾☆☾☆ ☾☾☆NIGHT ☾☆☾ ☾☆☾ NIGHT ☾☆ ☾☆☾☆☾SWEET ☆ ☾☆☾☆ ☾☆DREAMS ☾☆☾☆☾☆ ☾ ☆☾☆

Debbie Nestor (GTS Friend) August 6, 2009

LOVE
IF LOVE COULD BRING YOU HOME AGAIN
YOU WOULD BE BY YOR LOVED ONES SIDE
BECAUSE THERE HEARTS ARE BREAKING
FOR THE LOVE THEY HAVE INSIDE
THEY NEVER ASK FOR MUCH
ALL THEY WANT IS TO HOLD YOU
AND KEEP YOU BY THERE SIDE
BUT LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU
IN OUR HEART YOU WILL STAY FOREVER
TILL THE DAY WE ARE TOGETHER
AND THEN THE TEARS WILL GO AWAY
XxXxXxX

Ness McLear (GTS Friend) August 6, 2009

✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞•✝•♥•✞

♥ The Promise ♥
(by Diane Robertson)

Of angel wings and heavenly things
There’s very little known,
For those who have the answers
Are, forever, from us gone.
Life in the hereafter,
In faith, I must accept;
Thoughts that trouble not the people
With families still intact.
But, those of us who’ve travelled
Down the lonely path of grief,
Are forever seeking answers
To the riddle, which is life.
We trek through shadowed forests
Past the ugly shroud of death,
Toward a promise for the future
Of a kinder, better place.
So, we look to see the angel wings
And listen for the hymn
That God will send to guide us
When we leave to be with Him.

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Mel Xxxxx August 5, 2009

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Debbie Nestor (GTS Friend) August 4, 2009

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