
| Location | Tidworth (born In Leeds) Seacroft |
| Age | 57 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 26/02/1950 |
| Date of Death | 19/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 11,651 since 20/06/2008 |
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ALL MY POEMS THAT I WRITE ARE NOW COPYRIGHT REGISTERED AND PROTECTED @my free copyright.com
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THE FOLLOWING POEM WAS WRITTEN BY MYSELF AND IS AT THE MOMENT BEING PUT ON SOME MEMORIALS WITHOUT MY
NAME ON IT. I WOULD BE VERY GRATEFUL IF YOU WOULD AMEND IT.
THANK YOU.
FOUR LITTLE WORDS
There are four little words
that can easily be said
to my angels in heaven
before I go to my bed.
I look up to the stars
that are shining so bright
and I whisper so quietly
I Love You, Goodnight.
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
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MY SOLDIER BOY
My angel was a soldier boy
travelling far and wide,
He served his country faithfully
with his comrades by his side
My soldier boy was just a child
when he signed up for the cause,
but little did we know that soon
he would be fighting in the wars.
He wore his uniform so proud,
and medals for all to see,
but little did I know quite soon,
he wouldn't come back to me.
So as he waved bye bye that day
We both stood there and cried,
and then that awful letter came
for his country he had died.
I sometimes smile, I sometimes cry
now that we are apart
I will never forget you soldier boy
You're always in my heart.
Copyright ©Jean Cavanagh 2009
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M - Miss you every day and night
Y - You're that star in the sky shining bright
A - Angel wings hold me so gently
N - Never ending love surrounds me
G - God took you in his loving care
E - Embracing you on your journey there
L - Left me with just memories of a love so rare.
✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽✽ܓ✽
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
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H is for the HAPPINESS and how you always cared
E is for the Everlasting love that we once shared
A is for the Angel that you are up above
R is for the Robin the Butterfly and the Dove
T is for Terry who I will always miss and love
A is for the Awful pain that you had every day
C is for the Cancer that took your life away
H is for the Heavenly Father who took you up above
E if for the Emptiness I am feeling without your love
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Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
MANY THANKS FOR ALL THE KIND MESSAGES I HAVE BEEN RECEIVING ABOUT MY POEMS AND CANDLE VERSES. I ONLY
STARTED WRITING THEM A FEW MONTHS BACK BUT GET GREAT COMFORT FROM DOING THEM. I FEEL SO PROUD THAT
MANY OF YOU HAVE ASKED TO USE THEM ON YOUR MEMORIALS. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
THANK YOU TO ALL MY LOVELY FRIENDS WHO CONTINUE TO LIGHT CANDLES ETC FOR TERRY AND MY MUM AND GIVE
ME SO MUCH SUPPORT IT MEANS SO MUCH.
PLEASE FEEL FREE ANYONE WHO WISHES TO LIGHT A CANDLE ETC. FOR TERRY. I GIVE MY PERMISSION FOR ANYONE
TO USE ANY PHOTOS PROVIDING IT IS FOR USE ON TERRY'S MEMORIAL ONLY.
My Family
RIP Dvr John Brown died in 1939 aged 18 years of pneumonia in Tidworth Military Hospital. Buried in
Tidworth Military Cemetary. Uncle of Terry Cavanagh.
RIP (Dad) 22957366 Sgt John Victor Cooke RASC/RCT died of prostrate cancer in 1998 aged 79. Buried
in Aldershot Crematorium. Fought at Dunkirk. Ex 8th Army and Chindit. He always paraded at the
cenotaph in London every Remembrance Day until the last year when he was in a wheelchair and still
managed with Mum pushing him. Served 32 years in Army.
RIP (Mum) Agnes May Cooke passed of cancer on 2 March 08 (Mothers Day). Funeral took place on 14
March on what would have been her 83rd birthday.
RIP (Cousin) Major Ronald Cooke died aged 60 of massive heart attack on 15 Dec 07. Served 22 years
in Army.
RIP Nell Cooke (Aunt) passed of cancer 1985
RIP 24158495 LCPL Terry Cavanagh (my husband)4/7th Royal Dragoon Guards died at home of cancer on 19
Jan 07 aged 57. Buried in Tidworth Military Cemetary.
RIP Annie Cavanagh (Terry's Mum)passed of lung and liver cancer also aged 57 1974
RIP Charles Cavanagh (Terry's Dad)
RIP John Cavanagh (Terry's Brother)passed of brain cancer.
MY SON AND HIS PARTNER ARE EXPECTING A BABY BOY IN APRIL. THEY ARE GOING TO GIVE HIM THE NAME TERRY
AS A SECOND NAME IN MEMORY OF HIS GRANDDAD. ALSO 1 MORE GRANDCHILD DUE IN AUGUST 09.
◄███▓▒░░ LOVING HUSBAND ░░▒▓███►
My partner, soulmate, and husband of 33 years Terry went to heaven on 19 Jan 08 age 57 years.
Joined the Army 1969-1978
4/7th Royal Dragoon Guards
Bricklayer/Foreman.
Terry was born in Leeds and lived with his mum and dad on North Parkway in Seacroft, until he joined
the Army at the age of 18.
He was posted to Tidworth in Hampshire in 1975 and that is where we first met, and eventually
settled down when he came out of the Army. Terry has 4 surviving sisters Jean, Margaret, Ann and
Michelle. 3 Children - Ilona, Dyanne and Richard.
6 grand children - Mitchell, Leah, Kayla-May, Chloe Jane, and Ruby Rose born 23 Feb 08 and Caleb
Terence born on 20 Apr 08. (1 more due, August 08).
I already had 2 children from a previous marriage when we met, and he brought them up as his own and
they always called him dad.
Terry was diagnosed with secondary liver cancer on 7 June 07. We did not know he had cancer but the
specialist told us it had derived from the colon or bowel which he probably had for 2 or 3 years and
not known. We wept uncontrollably the day we left the hospital as he was only given 6-12 months to
live. Terry told me that evening he was not afraid of dieing, probably the old soldier in him.
We lived together for 32 years and finally got married on 14 July 07. He said to me on the way to
the Registry Office that morning "Promise me you won't cry, or you'll start me off." When he put the
ring on my finger he was the one that cried, and then everyone started, I choked but managed not to
cry. It was just a small ceremony with close family and friends, but it was the happiest day of my
life. The sun was shining on us that day,it was one of the warmest days of the year. He even
postponed his chemo for a month as it co-incided with our wedding day. A week later he drove all the
way down to Dorset where we stayed in a holiday bungalow for a week. All the way there he was
suffering terrible stomach pains but was determined we would have our last holiday or honeymoon. We
even took our little dog with us.
Terry suffered a heart attack on Remembrance Day after attending a service at the Royal British
Legion. He spent a week in hospital and after his x-rays we find out that the cancer had spread to
his lungs. From that day on he was almost bedridden.
Terry spent his last days doing his favourite hobby, fishing, and went on a fishing trip with his
grandson Mitchell and a close friend. They fished for 31 hours, he just didn't want to stop. He knew
it would be the last time.
As the days went on he lost so much weight and just slept for hours on end. Christmas was terrible,
he ate a half of weetabix and was violently sick. He could not eat anything and just laid in bed
sleeping all day. My son and daughter came over and the 3 of us just sat in the kitchen and tried to
make the best of it.
Terry died peacefully at home on 19 Jan 08 and with such bravery and dignity. His sister Michelle
and Niece Lynne were here with me. Terry was always remembered for his sense of humour and never
stopped cracking jokes. I still love him dearly, he was my soulmate. I miss him terribly. We would
sit of an evening listening to music over a bottle of wine or two. His favourite music was Country
and Western but liked listening to Dean Martin and often used to mimic him.
Never a day goes by without me not thinking of him and shedding a silent tear.
Because he was so dignified and brave I feel I am not frightened to let go when my time comes. Such
a brave, brave man.
I still love you my darling and I always will. No-one could ever replace you. Till we meet again my
little soldier boy, God Bless and goodnight. Sleep tight, you are forever in my heart.
I cannot thank my daughter Dy, son Rich, and friends Pete, Jim, Sarah and Laura enough, who have all
been so supportive. Also to my grandchildren Mitch, Leah, Kayla-May and Chloe who have helped me to
raise a smile with their wonderful sense of humour.
Thank you to all those kind people on here who have lit a candle and paid a tribute to my darling
Terry.
xxTo My Darling Terryxx
♥ In my eyes you're by my side ♥
♥ In my ears you are my guide ♥
♥ In my mind you touch my hand ♥
♥ In my head I understand ♥
♥ In my heart you're always here ♥
♥ In my home you're always near ♥
♥ Death may take but cannot part ♥
♥ For you are always in my heart ♥
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
I remember - dedicated to my Soul Mate Terry xx
I remember
I remember when
our eyes first met
I remember when
you called me pet.
I remember when
your lips met mine
I remember when
we drank our wine.
I remember when
you got down on one knee
I remember when
you proposed to me.
I remember when
we married that day
I remember when
together we lay.
I remember when
our children grew up
I remember when
you bought them their first pup.
I remember when
the children left home
I remember when
we were back on our own.
I remember when
we had those years
I remember when
it was laughter and tears.
I remember when
your time drew near
I remember when
I shed a tear.
I remember when
you drew your last breath
I remember when
I lost you in death.
I remember when
we said our goodbyes
and I remember when
I closed your eyes.
I remember
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
A New Life Just Begun
wish that you were here right now
to celebrate with me
your brand new baby grandson
for all the world to see.
His tiny little fingers
and his tiny little toes
his lovely little ice blue eyes
and a cute little button nose.
He is but just a few days old
and is good and good can be
he snuggles into mother's breast
a beautiful sight to see.
He opens his eyes and gives a yawn
and makes a funny noise
then mummy lays him in his cot
with all his cuddly toys.
It brought back all the memories
of when we had our son
and that look of joy upon your face
at a new life just begun.
Now he is a new daddy himself
full of happiness and pride
The look of love is in his eyes
with baby by his side.
He lifts him gently in his arms
just like you used to do
and whispers softly in his ear
I wish Grandad could see you too.
But we both know that you were there
Even though we're far apart
and although I could not see you
I felt you in my heart.
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
My Dream of you
I had a lovely dream last night
I wish it had come true.
I travelled on a shooting star
and made my way to you.
You welcomed me with open arms
and held me oh so tight.
You took me to a wonderful place
and what a beautiful sight.
The angels were singing quietly
as you took me by the hand.
Into God's Beautiful Garden
a wonderous and pleasant land.
You kissed me softly on the lips
I held you close to me.
I didn't want to let you go
I couldn't set you free.
You told me that you loved me
and would for ever more.
But that I must go back now
and you led me to Heaven's Door.
I floated down upon a cloud
My eyes were filled with tears.
You waved goodbye once again
and said wait a few more years.
As I awoke this morning
and I lay there in my bed
I couldn't help but wonder
at all things you said.
I know you are at peace now,
and I am still your loving wife
I thank the dear Lord up above
for bringing you into my life.
So when my time is over
and I lay my head to rest
I'll go back on that shooting star
To the one I love the best.
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
♥To My Darling Terry♥
Oh Lord please keep my Angel,
forever safe in your loving care.
Wrap your arms around him gently,
and let him know that I feel him there.
He suffered so much awful pain
He didn't let it show,
If I only I could see him again
And tell him I love him so.
I know that he is peaceful now
and not in any pain,
But oh how I wish dear Lord
I could see him once again.
Written by jean Cavanagh 2009
My Prayer
Oh Heavenly Father up above
please listen to my prayer
and give my angel all my love
the pain is too much too bare.
You took him far too soon you see
I still do not know why
He meant the very world to me
and then you let him die.
He suffered so much awful pain
I suffered with him too
Maybe my loss was your gain
and you needed him with you.
I know that there will come a day
When I am with him once again
So Dear Father while I pray
Please take away my pain.
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
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Rest your weary head and drift off into dreams,
Frolic in the sunshine and bathe in God's moonbeams.
Use the stars as stepping-stones to take you to your peace,
The pain of life forgotten now you have found release.
Without rain a flower folds, the petals drop and die,
There was no way to save you, you couldn't even cry.
So we cry all the tears instead as we must let you go
To Heaven, and God's garden to blossom and to grow.
The little seed is planted, you'll be watered every day,
The angels will tend all your needs as in their arms you lay.
Your life will be amazing now and full of wondrous things,
Rest in peace, our dear, sweet Terry, go fly on angels wings.
(Author unknown)
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Sent with Love
Were wondering about you,
What would you look like now,
Wondering if we will get to meet you,
Somewhat, Somewhere, Somehow,
♥
Were thinking all about you,
The places you liked to go,
The things you liked to do,
The reasons why we loved you so,
♥
We just need the answers,
And until the day we die,
We will never get over losing you.
Because we never said goodbye..!!
♥
Copywrite Jan Morris 2009
Thinking of you and your family
Love from the wallers xxxxxx
YOUR WEDDING RING
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY FIRST LOVE TO ME
YOU MEANT SO MUCH TO ME YOU SEE
I WILL NEVER FORGET THAT DAY WHEN I WALKED DOWN THE AISLE
THE LOOK ON YOUR FACE..
YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE
WE SAID OUR VOWS AND THEY WERE..
'TIL DEATH DO US PART
NOW GOD HAS TAKEN YOU THE ONLY THING I HAVE LEFT OF YOU ARE..
YOUR WEDDING RING
OUR MEMORIES..
AND A BROKEN HEART.
copyright© Jackie Thomas 2009.
H is for the Happiness and how you always cared
E is for the Everlasting love that we once shared
A is for the Angel that you are up above
R is for the Robin the Butterfly and the Dove
T is for ♥Terry who I will always miss and love♥
A is for the Awful pain that you had every day
C is for the Cancer that took your life away
H is for the Heavenly Father who took you up above
E if for the Emptiness I am feeling without your love
Copyright© Jean Cavanagh
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